Well you know the roller coaster of emotion experienced is far greater than I had ever imagined. I'm not upset, I think we were fairly realistic with the odds on a first attempt. Let me just say that it was soooooooooo very nice that dr Shivani actually called to break the negative news. I think that means more to us than anything else. Dr Shivani said we could try again in 3 weeks, woooohooooo I can't wait. This time we will try with 2 surrogates. Why? Well we were going to try with 2 surrogates first try but for some reason only tried one.
So the positive to come from this negative is that our Aussie and Canadian friends who also had a bfn so we all get to start the process over and finger toes arms legs and everything else crossed we will return to Delhi at the same time in approx 9 months and 3 weeks.
Anyhow today is the day the I D boys receive their good news, now if I were a betting man and based on the statistics they are surely guaranteed the biggest of bfp's! And if ever anyone deserved this it is the I D boys. Guys if you reading this I am writing this at 2 am and I'm sure you both are wide awake as well. Anticipation for great things is keeping me up.
So what's been happening in good old Melbourne town??? Well work has been busy busy, Tim's business is still experiencing growth and new ground. His determination and approach to work has changed dramatically since starting this journey as his business is the one we want to focus on Longterm (it is the most family friendly). My business on the other hand is 24 hours 7 days a week 365 days a year. We have worked Christmas, boxing and New Years days for the last 9 years, not something we want to be doing long term with a family. Only downside is my business is the one that pays the bills and has provided the opportunity for surrogacy.
We have met so many Great people on this journey so far it is almost overwhelming. It is fantastic to know that we are not alone on this emotion journey. So to all in blog land and to all our new friends thank you for your support and encouragement, you all make the difference.
Thanks for following our journey
Xoxoxox
Chris and Tim
So the positive to come from this negative is that our Aussie and Canadian friends who also had a bfn so we all get to start the process over and finger toes arms legs and everything else crossed we will return to Delhi at the same time in approx 9 months and 3 weeks.
Anyhow today is the day the I D boys receive their good news, now if I were a betting man and based on the statistics they are surely guaranteed the biggest of bfp's! And if ever anyone deserved this it is the I D boys. Guys if you reading this I am writing this at 2 am and I'm sure you both are wide awake as well. Anticipation for great things is keeping me up.
So what's been happening in good old Melbourne town??? Well work has been busy busy, Tim's business is still experiencing growth and new ground. His determination and approach to work has changed dramatically since starting this journey as his business is the one we want to focus on Longterm (it is the most family friendly). My business on the other hand is 24 hours 7 days a week 365 days a year. We have worked Christmas, boxing and New Years days for the last 9 years, not something we want to be doing long term with a family. Only downside is my business is the one that pays the bills and has provided the opportunity for surrogacy.
We have met so many Great people on this journey so far it is almost overwhelming. It is fantastic to know that we are not alone on this emotion journey. So to all in blog land and to all our new friends thank you for your support and encouragement, you all make the difference.
Thanks for following our journey
Xoxoxox
Chris and Tim
Yes Chris 2.59am and up having a cup of tea reading your blog. Only feeling a little uneasy with all of the results in for our new friends.Here's hoping someone gets a bfp.We will email you when we get our results.
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Ian & David
Very glad that you guys decided to try again right away. I know it helped us when we got our first negative to still have something to look forward to. Good luck on this next try!
ReplyDeleteSorry you weren't successful on the first go round. However, this means we could be on the same cycle since we will be making our first attempt in 3 weeks in Delhi. Good luck to all!
ReplyDeleteSo sorry it did not work guys, sounds like you have your next steps in place, wishing you the very best for three weeks time! x
ReplyDeleteYou know we'll be renting the entire floor (OK, maybe one large section of one floor) in the Svelte in 9+ months! LOL!
ReplyDeleteHey guys, sorry we didnt quite cross paths in Delhi...would have loved to met you both. We have our fingers (and everything else!) crossed for you for a positive this time round :)
ReplyDeleteMuch luck and baby dust being sent your way
xo
Sorry to hear that guys.
ReplyDeleteGlad you have a backup in 3 weeks and hopefully we'll all be back in Delhi next July :-)
Best wishes
Alex and Graham